The Case for the Pregnancy Muumuu

By Estelle Sobel Erasmus

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Me, five months or so pregnant.

I was about five months pregnant with my daughter and in between my regular bouts of vomiting, when my mom came over for a visit with a small package in her hand.

“Estelle,  I got you something to wear,” my mom said handing me the package. “Maybe not for now, but later when you’re bigger.”

“What is this,” I asked as I opened up the package and pulled out  a ginormous navy blue garment, that Mama Cass would have been proud to own.

“It’s a caftan,-or what used to be called a house dress,” my mom said with delight. I thought you might like it.”

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This is what a house dress looks like. Who knew?

“That’s not a caftan, mom,  it’s a muumuu–a huge one,” I said, full of righteous indignation.

“Mom, that’s so rude,” I continued. “Look at how small I am; I’m barely showing. I’ll NEVER get that big. Please take it back, I don’t ever want to see that again and for the record, I’m extremely insulted.”

“Ok. Ok. Calm down. I thought it might have been helpful, but I’ll take it back,” my mom said.

Nonplussed my mom put away the muumuu, and I didn’t think too much about it. I was busy becoming a microexpert on all things pregnancy, childbirth and early motherhood.

Flash forward,  a few months later from the “muumuu incident” and I was so big that going from the bed to the bathroom to vomit each night (yes, I enjoyed that particular side effect of pregnancy up till my 32nd week) was such an ordeal, that I pulled the “royalty” card of yore, and told friends and family alike that I was going into “seclusion” until after the birth.

I’m surprised I didn’t send out an engraved announcement about my “seclusion”  although I hardly felt like a Queen, but  more like a vomiting, flatulent, Prairie woman. Still, one day, I called my mom up. I had come to an desperate important decision.

“Hi mom. Listen, I can’t fit into any of my maternity clothes anymore, and besides the heartburn makes anything that is constricting in any way too uncomfortable. You don’t by any chance still have that muumuu?

Her answer brought tears to my eyes.

“Estelle, I saved the muumuu for you. I had a feeling you’d want it one day.”

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My muumuu  sort of looked like this, but it was navy blue with buttons down the front.

 

Do you know, I wore that muumuu every day until the day I left to give birth in the hospital, seventy pounds heavier than my original weight. By that time the muumuu was a pale replica of its former self, what with the missing buttons down the front and faint vomit stains by the hem that washing couldn’t eradicate .

Somehow, none of that mattered. My mom had been there for me when I needed her, and now I had someone who might need me to give her a muumuu one day.

You bet I will.

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About Estelle Erasmus

Estelle Erasmus is an award-winning journalist and former magazine editor-in-chief who is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post. Estelle blogs about life raising a young daughter in midlife at Musings on Motherhood & Midlife. She is the co-author of Beautiful Skin: Every Woman's Guide to Looking Her Best at Any Age (Adams Media), and has been a featured author in several anthologies. Estelle won BlogHer Voices of the Year awards in 2012 and 2014. She is a 2014 Disney Social Media Moms, and a 2014 National Geographic Kids Insider. She has spoken about publishing at Folio MidWest and iRetreat2014. She writes regularly on travel, parenting and lifestyle issues.

63 thoughts on “The Case for the Pregnancy Muumuu”

  1. My grandmother always called it a house dress, too! Well, you look adorable at any weight and in any kind of clothes. You rock the mumu!

  2. Oh my gosh, you are hilarious! I love that she bought you this and you wore it like a champ! My MIL bought me a nightgown for after my third baby was born. My hubby thought it was hideous and I was non-plussed. But I wore that thing until it fell apart. It was perfect for nursing in the middle of the night and was so comfy. I just got rid of it (months after I finished nursing).

    1. Lori,
      I’m so glad I was responsible for you snorting coffee. What a nice start to the morning:) I agree that caftan sounds nicer than Mumu or Muumuu.
      Estelle

  3. What a great mother! I think I would have reacted the same as you if my mom had graciously given me a MuMu ;)
    My third pregnancy was the hardest, though none of them were incredibly difficult. It was hard because the other two were so young (2 and 3) and needed me so much – I *almost* wish I had thought of a mumu – instead I just wore my husband’s extra large shirts and bought myself some giant sweat pants! I was so stylin’! ha
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  4. My mother also gave me a Mumu from the Chadwicks of Boston catalog.

    I loved it and wore it in secret shame, never admitting to her it was perfect! (And saved it for my girls. )

    It is now the family mumu, I mean the “heirloom caftan”

    1. Absolutely. It is definitely all about the attitude. Wish that they did come in better patterns. Mine was solid color so it was a bit more subtle.
      Estelle

  5. Estelle, Loved your post. Having met your mom on a couple of occasions, it doesn’t surprise me that she offered you the mumu and she quietly kept it knowing that you would need it some day..So sweet….

  6. Had my first baby at 40, spent several months in the hospital with warnings that either the baby or I might not make it — but my daughter was born 6 weeks premature, 6 pounds, 6 ounces and a 10 on the Apgar score. I gained 80 pounds but most of it was ……ready for this…..tumors — and yes, gave birth to all of those at the same time :) LOL
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    1. Thanks Sheryl. I could have dealt with 40 pounds-the 70 pounds I gained definitely required a Mumu! But I’m all for the post pregnancy house dress, lounger or Mumu:)
      Estelle

    1. Lisa,
      That’s so impressive that you made your maternity clothes. I think that would have taken too much of my energy what with all of the vomiting, etc. However, I’m not “crafty” that way, so kudos to you. Thanks re the picture. It is one of my favorite ones from that time.
      Estelle

    1. Thanks Cathy. Wow! Only 18 pounds. That’s amazing. I couldn’t believe how much I gained despite how much I vomited. I think it was all the watermelon that my baby in my belly craved. Watermelon is still her favorite food today!
      Estelle

    1. Hi Teddy,
      Wow, your third pregnancy! My hat is off to you. Yes, you should get yourself a Mumu. It’s the best. Thanks so much for visiting and best of luck with your pregnancy.
      Estelle

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