Blame It On Barney

By Estelle Sobel Erasmus

My daughter has a passion for the color purple. If an article of clothing doesn’t have some shade of purple in it, forget about it. She shakes her little head, tendrils of curls flying around, and says, “no, mommy. I want the purple shirt…purple pants…purple socks…purple backpack…purple sneakers.”

Ok Ok. I get it. You want it because its pretty? No. You want it because its functional? No. Oh, that’s right. You want it because its…purple!

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Loving the Color Purple

Now I must admit I was always a red girl, and for some reason as I’ve gotten older my loyalties have shifted to blue and green. I don’t have a problem with purple per se. What I have a problem with?  Identifying the need for an item solely based on its color.

I blame it on Barney! There, I said it. That adorable purple dinosaur who sang, danced and encouraged her to “use your imagination”, he’s the culprit in this purple kiddie caper.  But I’m to blame, too. Wasn’t I the mommy who sang along with him, encouraging my daughter to bond further to me with the hypnotic words from Barney’s theme song, “I love you, you love me, we’re a happy family“? Did she somehow in her developing baby brain connect the color purple with the feeling of love she gets from me and her daddy?

Of course I reassure myself that its just a phase she’s going through–and hope that when she falls in love and ties the knot one day it won’t be in a purple dress.
What is/was your child’s obsession?

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 Blame It On Barney

About Estelle Erasmus

Estelle Erasmus is an award-winning journalist and former magazine editor-in-chief who is a regular contributor to the Huffington Post. Estelle blogs about life raising a young daughter in midlife at Musings on Motherhood & Midlife. She is the co-author of Beautiful Skin: Every Woman's Guide to Looking Her Best at Any Age (Adams Media), and has been a featured author in several anthologies. Estelle won BlogHer Voices of the Year awards in 2012 and 2014. She is a 2014 Disney Social Media Moms, and a 2014 National Geographic Kids Insider. She has spoken about publishing at Folio MidWest and iRetreat2014. She writes regularly on travel, parenting and lifestyle issues.

7 thoughts on “Blame It On Barney”

  1. I had to smile, because my daughter used to love to sing and dance around with Barney.  She is 12 now and thinks he is stupid, LOL.  I think it is a phase, but it could be she just loves purple.  My grandma loved purple all her life and if asked I am pretty sure she wouldn’t have known who Barney was unless he had danced and sang on Lawrence Welk. LOL

    Kathy
    http://gigglingtruckerwife.blogspot.com

    1. Hi Kathy,
      I wonder about the allure of a clearly middle-aged man dressed up in a purple dinosaur suit hanging with kids, but that’s the magic of television. I have a friend like your grandma; she always wanted to have a store that sold all purple items. LOL. Thanks for visiting.
      Estelle

  2. This made me smile.  I can still remember the ” I love you” song…Oh my..I don’t want that stuck in my head tonight. But, funny thing, I was obsessed with purple as a little girl because Donny Osmond wore purple socks.  Yep, I loved it.  As an adult I go for red or pink now, but then, everything was purple.  For my 45 birthday, my hubby took me to see Donny when he was in NYC as I always wanted to go.  Yep, middle aged woman, misty over “Puppy Love” being sung.  Hubby drew the line at the purple socks though!

    1. Hi Winnie,
      I hear you. I used to like Donny Osmond, too. Then he got older and his face got tighter… I didn’t know he wore purple socks though. Funny. Thanks for visiting and commenting.
      Estelle

  3. My youngest loves (and still loves) leopard or cheetah prints. I cringe, but what can I do? My oldest loves anything with bling, the more glitz the happier she is. The good news, purple is a socially acceptable color to wear. The bad, my kids NEVER outgrew it. But if it’s based on Barney you may have better luck!

    1. Hi Nancy,
      Your youngest would love the leopard print carpeting in my daughter’s room:) I think the love of bling is next! Thanks for visiting.
      Estelle

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